Problematic? Crazy? Not really!

tell you a secret!
I WENT FOR COUNSELLING !!!
actually, going counselling didn't mean that u are problematic or crazy!
to be honest, i went through counselling session in college for months already!
i started go to there for a career test and counselling sessions continues

hmm... maybe i should reveal myself !
..... when i was young, maybe 10-11 years old, my mum brought be to counselling
at first, like everyone does, i thought only problematic people go for counselling
this is because at school, only students who have discipline problem go for counselling
but, I WAS WRONG!
i remember vividly, when i went for counselling what they did was talking to you, listening to your problem, giving you opinion....
oh ya, i did have a activity called "sand story-telling" (i am not sure the actual name)
it is an activity that you will create your own story on the sand with different toys!

it is really amazing that find someone you can tell everything because you know that they won't share with other
ps: secondary-school counselors are different, they are the gossip-monger! that's why i didn't go for them instead i go for private!
after counselling sessions, i found myself more relaxed and able to concentrate on what i was suppose to do!

in short, counselling is a place/ time that you can reveal yourself!
sometimes, i even think that counselors are like dustbin! i can throw whatever/ everything to them
then, i sort of have the feelings like throwing rubbish and i m clean!
SEE, HOW FANTASTIC!
usually, counselors acts as a third-party, they look at different point of view and they are able to tell you what others think about your incidents then they will give your advice

maybe many of you will think that SAYING IS EASIER THAN DOING!
it is true!
but with their advice, it seems like a stronger evidence for you u believe it!
in fact, i sometimes also felt that what the counselors told me is like very general, everyone can say the same thing
but, when you sit down and think about what they say, it makes sense!

alright, why i share about COUNSELLING ??
because today is my last session of counselling with my counselor, MAY!
i have been seeing her for the pass few months, mainly regarding career issue!
and till today, i m still not very sure what course should i like
it is either business or engineering ?

here is a photo of both of us!

My counselor, May  and I