BLAMING?

Please, don't attribute your attitude & behavior to how someone else treats you!
This is an excuse!

I seriously don't understand why people like to blame everything to others
As if they are the victim, it's not their fault at all
They just like to push all the things to another person
What I really cannot stand is that they even do the same thing on their ATTITUDE

A.T.T.I.T.U.D.E.
Do you blame others just because you are unhappy ?
Do you blame others because you have negative thinking & causes depression?
Do you blame others when you get angry?
Do you blame the bus because you are late?
Do you blame the economy when you cannot find a job?

Don't be surprised! it is very normal for human beings to blame others!
but, most importantly, after some time you may begin to reflect yourself!

You cannot blame others when you are not happy!
You are the one who can control your emotion!
AND YOU ARE THE ONLY WHO DECIDE NOT TO BE HAPPY!!
You choose to be isn't it?
You choose to think the negative part instead of positive part！
Don't tell me that there is nothing worth for you to be happy with!
Are you telling me you have a miserable life for your whole life??
if you really think you really have a "unsuccessful" life why don't you take a look the kids at africa then only you will realize that your life is a bless!

People who have depression and like the whole world knows that they got depression is just DEPRESSION ATTITUDE!
They just want to push the responsibility of what they did with depression
Actually, they don't have depression at all
It is only they kept telling themselves they are having depression and as time goes, they got depressed
Many of them just take "depression" as a reason for others to give in!

Why don't you say that it is your low EQ that causes you to get angry??
Why don't you blame yourselves for that?
Indeed, there are cases that really get our monkeys up in real life, but we can be frustrated for a second and not for the whole life!
Or a better way, it changes your attitude and train for a higher EQ!

Blaming the bus and the economy is pretty common for us!
But think about it again!
If we have the "why don't I wake up earlier" attitude, we won't be late because we missed the bus
if we have the "be the best, beat the rest" attitude, we won't be sacked by companies & bad economy will not affect you at all
Just imagine, which boss would like to fire staff that bring benefits to the company?

See, it is all about our attitude!
we used to hear, you are what you EAT!
but, now i am telling you that you are what your ATTITUDE!!